So I Will Post Here.......maybe Someone Will Have Some Answers For Me On What To Do..... I Have A Problem..... I Grounded My Daughter Monday For Coming Home Late....mind You She Is 16 But Still Rules Are Rules They Were Not Made To Broke Unless You Have A Good Excuse And She Didnt...... Last Night I Ended Up Grounding For The Weekend...(more Touture For Me) Anyway I Agreed Not To Make Her Come Camping With Us This Year....she Was Boared To Tears Last Year Her And Her Friend...so This Year I Set It Up As She Will Stay With Her Dad At Night When He Gets Out Of Work.and He Will Drop Her Off At My House Durning The Day..we Live In Two Differnt Cities....her Dad Is More Of A Buddy Than A Father...anyway If She Is Not Following My Rules When I Am Home What Is She Gonna Pull When Iam Not...so Here Is My Problem...i Go Away And Worry Sick About Her The Whole Time Or....i Make Her Come With Us And Let Her Make My Time A Miserable Hell.....i'm In A Catch 22...either Way I Lose....i Have Never Left Her Alone Before...and Her Dad Has Never Taken Her For More Than A Night......ahhhhhhhhhh I Dont Know Any Suggestions Please......french..

Sorry French not a parent so not sure what to tell ya.

I could have left my son and not have worried at all. But I don't know your daughter. It would be really hard for me to give you advice about that. Why isn't she staying at her dad's day and night? Is there another adult that can check on her while you're gone? I really wouldn't like to bring her with and have her totally ruin my relaxing vacation.

That's a hard question to answer. Sorry. :Sympathy:

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I Know Its Hard Question..... If She Stays At Her Dads Day And Night Then She Will Have Nothing To Do But Watch T.v.....haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Then Whats To Worry About Right....what Do I Care If She Is Board To Tears Over There...haahahah Got It...know The Answer To That Now Thanks Luvs...if She Is In His House Day And Night I Dont Have To Worry About Her Right????? She Board And I'm Having A Great Time Floating On The Lake With Beer In Hand.....whats The Problem........her Fault For Wanting To Come With Me In The First Place...ahhhhhhhh If Only I Could Be That Cold..... She Is My Baby.....my Only Baby...gots To Care Just A Little Bit....... .... Either Way I Will Work This Out So Its A Win Win........i Still Have Five Day To Figure It All Out..thought I Was Clear Of All This....had It Planned Out Two Months Ago...and Now She Wants To Act Up.....freaking Hate Teens...lol

LUCKY YOU..... THERE BROWNIE WITH NUTS

I can't wait until I do have little babies running around (o: Probably 2-3 more years, im gonna travel and enjoy newlywedissm while I can, hehe.

YEAH BETTER MAKE IT ANOTHER TEN YEARS......REALLY REALLY REALLY ENJOY YOUR MARRIED LIFE.....:jester: HAVING BABIES AROUND IS A JOY....RIGHT UP TILL THERE ABOUT 13 THEN THEY DEVELOPE MOUTHS...AND DAM IF I DIDNT KNOW BETTER I WOULD SAY I HAVE THE SMARTEST KID IN THE WORLD...EVERYTHING I TELL HER SHE SAYS I KNOW !!!!
NO MATTER WHAT ...SHE ALREADY KNOWS.....DAM I COULD MAKE MILLIONS OFF THIS KID SHE IS SO SMART......AHAHAHAHAHAHAH

Thanks French. Ya I told my hubby I wanted to wait 5 more years that will make me 32, but he will be 38, he said no that's to long he'll be to old, haha. He doesn't want to be a grandpa raising kids. So im thinking probably when im 29 or 30 i'll have my first.

How exciting it will be and a totally different life for sure. I am so excited about seeing a baby that we create!!